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'They’re not watchable': Donald Trump mocks third GOP debate candidates while rallying in Hialeah
'They’re not watchable': Donald Trump mocks third GOP debate candidates while rallying in Hialeah
Former POTUS Donald Trump told people at his ralley in Florida that the GOP candidates are totally 'unwatchable'
2023-11-09 14:57
Who is Bradley Dimmick? Texas man accused of murder and decapitation as blood trail unveils severed head in bathtub
Who is Bradley Dimmick? Texas man accused of murder and decapitation as blood trail unveils severed head in bathtub
Bradley Dimmick reportedly made a chilling admission to the officers, stating, 'I just killed somebody'
2023-10-16 19:55
Philadelphia Zoo officials say dye may have killed its five meerkats
Philadelphia Zoo officials say dye may have killed its five meerkats
In less than two weeks, all five of the Philadelphia Zoo's meerkats died. Now, the zoo needs to find out why.
2023-06-15 05:56
GenZ TikTok queen Dixie D’Amelio gives a candid response to speculation about getting plastic surgery
GenZ TikTok queen Dixie D’Amelio gives a candid response to speculation about getting plastic surgery
Dixie D'Amelio dressed up as the Queen of Hearts on Halloween this year
2023-11-18 14:28
As Blinken visits, top Saudi diplomat says kingdom seeks US nuclear aid but 'others' also bidding
As Blinken visits, top Saudi diplomat says kingdom seeks US nuclear aid but 'others' also bidding
Saudi Arabia’s foreign minister says that while the kingdom would welcome U_S_ aid in building its civilian nuclear program, there are also "others that are bidding.”
2023-06-08 23:48
After convention chaos, Minnesota DFL committee gives initial nod to ban those engaged in violence
After convention chaos, Minnesota DFL committee gives initial nod to ban those engaged in violence
The executive committee of Minnesota's Democratic Farmer Labor Party gave initial approval to bylaws that will permanently ban people who engage in or incite violent acts from participating in party activities
2023-05-19 11:59
US, Japan, S.Korea, condemn N.Korean missile launch in joint statement
US, Japan, S.Korea, condemn N.Korean missile launch in joint statement
(Reuters) -North Korea's firing of an intercontinental ballistic missile (ICBM) this week violates multiple U.N. resolutions and threatens peace and
2023-07-15 02:46
Russia’s Wagner Group Led Central Africa Massacres: Sentry
Russia’s Wagner Group Led Central Africa Massacres: Sentry
Russia’s Wagner Group has played a central role in a campaign of killings, torture and rape in the
2023-06-27 16:58
How to celebrate Thanksgiving when you’re not close to your family
How to celebrate Thanksgiving when you’re not close to your family
Thanksgiving is only a day away and most Americans have solidified their family plans for the holiday. Whether you’re hosting the big meal or heading to a relative’s house, the holidays are often a chance to reconnect with loved ones. However, Thanksgiving Day isn’t always a family-oriented occasion. Over the years, several studies have found that the seemingly joyous holiday season isn’t always easy for everyone. In a survey conducted by the AARP Foundation in 2017, 31 per cent of respondents said they felt lonely during the holidays throughout the last five years. Meanwhile, 41 per cent of participants were concerned about a family member or friend feeling lonely around the holidays. In 2020, a survey conducted by ValuePenguin also found that 70 per cent of respondents struggled with different types of loneliness before Thanksgiving and Christmas, partly due to the effects of the Covid-19 pandemic. While socially-distanced holiday parties have mostly become a thing of the past since then, there’s still many reasons why some people spend the season by themselves. Some Americans have family members living on the opposite side of the country, or world, while others may not have a close relationship with their relatives at all. There’s no one concrete way to spend the holidays, and everyone has their own reasons why they choose not to see certain people on Thanksgiving. Speaking to The Independent, Emma Mahony, a therapist at Better Life Therapy based in Pennsylvania, acknowledged that, when we spend the holidays alone, our feelings of loneliness can be heightened. While everyone experiences loneliness in a different way, Mahony believes that the feeling could be tied to how Thanksgiving has been portrayed over the years. “I think a lot of the anxieties and concerns that come up have to do with unmet expectations of what you think a holiday is supposed to look like, and what you think your relationship with your family or your friends is supposed to look like,” she said. “I think that’s where a lot of people themselves feel a little bit of a stressful state. Just maybe feeling a little let down by the expectations they have for themselves, after watching other people experience the holidays differently than them.” The holidays are often referred to as the most wonderful time of the year, but that doesn’t ring true for everyone. In some cases, the winter months can be quite a triggering time, and potentially a reminder to people of how they’ve been hurt by those closest to them. According to Mahony, the best way to manage those feelings of animosity is by creating your own perspective about the holidays and new ways to celebrate. “I think you should allow yourself to reframe it as: ‘Okay, how do I want the holidays to look for me? Who are the people that I do want in my life? Who are the people that I don’t want in my life?’” she advised. “Don’t try to make something that shouldn’t happen happen. Instead, recreate your own memories and your own traditions, and give yourself space and permission to do so. But also, if you know that it’s going to be a hard time for you, create that support system, from reaching out to a therapist or to a close friend.” For those who do have a close support system, it can make skipping out on Thanksgiving dinner a little easier. On the other hand, your cousins may miss sitting next to you at the dinner table. Still, Mahony believes we shouldn’t try to convince our family members to attend an event in which they’ve already opted out. “If someone decides they don’t want to be with you over the holidays, respect that choice for them,” she explained. “Don’t make them feel bad for prioritising themselves and their needs. [It] will potentially, you know, make things worse long term. I just honour that everyone needs to do what’s best for them, whether that be financially, emotionally, or physically.” Even if you decide to celebrate Thanksgiving this year without your family, it doesn’t mean that you’re entirely on your own. Mahony suggested setting up a Zoom call or FaceTime with some friends, or planning a fun meal if you’re worried about eating solo. “You could really do whatever you want, so I would set up things for yourself to look forward to,” she said. For those who are spending the holiday alone, but still want to take part in Thanksgiving-related activities, spend the morning or afternoon at a local homeless centre. You can continue the day by hosting a Friendsgiving dinner or movie night with your pals who are still in town. When it comes to food, you can cook a mini turkey for one or ditch Thanksgiving dinner altogether and order take-out at a local restaurant. Then, close out the night with some early Black Friday shopping online or in person. Although this Thursday is indeed a federal holiday, who says the day can’t feel like any other? Ultimately, how you spend Thanksgiving is entirely up to you and there’s no right or wrong way to celebrate the holidays. Remember that you shouldn’t be too hard on yourself for avoiding family during the holiday season. “If Thanksgiving looks different for you year after year, that’s okay. There’s not a specific way to spend the holidays and no family looks the same,” Mahoney said. “If you’re coming to terms with the fact that being with your family for the holidays isn’t what’s best for you, give yourself a little bit of compassion there. “It will get easier over the years, as you figure out how to take care of yourself better.”
2023-11-23 05:52
Andrew Tate drops condition to 'start a thread of free fitness tips': 'Posting what works for me'
Andrew Tate drops condition to 'start a thread of free fitness tips': 'Posting what works for me'
Andrew Tate added a disclaimer that his advice will not be based on evidence of any studies or opinions, and will have tips that only work for him
2023-11-16 15:45
Celtics thrive on 3s, beat Heat 110-97 in Game 5 to extend East finals
Celtics thrive on 3s, beat Heat 110-97 in Game 5 to extend East finals
Derrick White had 24 points, including six 3-pointers, helping lead the charge as the Boston Celtics dominated the Miami Heat 110-97 in Game 5 on to extend the Eastern Conference finals
2023-05-26 10:51
Federal judge nixes Donald Trump’s bid to move hush-money criminal case, keeping it in state court
Federal judge nixes Donald Trump’s bid to move hush-money criminal case, keeping it in state court
A federal judge has rejected Donald Trump’s bid to move his hush-money criminal case from New York state court to federal court
2023-07-20 02:27