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‘RHONJ’ star Teresa Giudice calls Luis Ruelas ‘love of my life’ on third anniversary, fans dub him ‘toxic man’
‘RHONJ’ star Teresa Giudice calls Luis Ruelas ‘love of my life’ on third anniversary, fans dub him ‘toxic man’
Teresa Giudice made a touching post for husband Luis Ruelas on Instagram, showing snippets of their time together
2023-07-28 10:49
DeKalb County district attorney withdraws from prosecution related to proposed 'Cop City' training center near Atlanta
DeKalb County district attorney withdraws from prosecution related to proposed 'Cop City' training center near Atlanta
Citing philosophical differences with other agencies, DeKalb County District Attorney Sherry Boston announced Friday that her office will no longer prosecute current cases connected to the proposed police fire and training facility near Atlanta, dubbed "Cop City" by opponents.
2023-06-24 05:22
Modi inaugurates grand new Indian parliament
Modi inaugurates grand new Indian parliament
Flanked by priests, Hindu nationalist Prime Minister Narendra Modi inaugurated a new Indian parliament on Sunday in a ceremony steeped in religious symbolism but...
2023-05-29 02:53
Kentucky Democrat Beshear links GOP challenger to reality of abortion law in reelection campaign
Kentucky Democrat Beshear links GOP challenger to reality of abortion law in reelection campaign
Democratic Gov. Andy Beshear has pushed his opposition to Kentucky’s abortion ban to the forefront of his reelection campaign
2023-09-06 12:50
Britain's Conservative government set to start cutting taxes ahead of likely election next year
Britain's Conservative government set to start cutting taxes ahead of likely election next year
Britain’s Conservative government will try to win favor with voters by cutting taxes but avoiding worsening inflation in a budget statement
2023-11-22 14:23
Japan’s Import Drop Softens Blow From Global Economic Slowdown
Japan’s Import Drop Softens Blow From Global Economic Slowdown
Japan’s imports fell for the first time in more than two years as commodity prices softened, cushioning the
2023-05-18 09:22
Sean O'Malley reveals reason behind Andrew Tate's 'powerful words': 'He has three cigars a day'
Sean O'Malley reveals reason behind Andrew Tate's 'powerful words': 'He has three cigars a day'
Sean O'Malley is a keen listener of Andrew Tate's speeches and says he has a 'good message'
2023-07-01 15:20
EU Warns Twitter Must Bolster Resources Ahead of Elections
EU Warns Twitter Must Bolster Resources Ahead of Elections
Elon Musk’s Twitter needs to put more resources toward addressing sensitive content if it wants to comply with
2023-06-23 12:47
Who is Troy Bohling? American tourist who pushed 2 women down ravine described as 'shy, quiet and peculiar'
Who is Troy Bohling? American tourist who pushed 2 women down ravine described as 'shy, quiet and peculiar'
Bohling hails from Lincoln Park, Michigan and was staying at a boarding house in Oberstdorf, Germany
2023-06-20 19:16
Emily Blunt 'almost killed' Tom Cruise during high-speed 'Edge of Tomorrow' car chase scene: 'I drove us into a tree'
Emily Blunt 'almost killed' Tom Cruise during high-speed 'Edge of Tomorrow' car chase scene: 'I drove us into a tree'
While Tom Cruise is known to have a penchant for extremely dangerous stunts, it appears his stint in the passenger seat wasn't as enjoyable
2023-06-16 20:26
How to support someone coming out in their 30s and beyond
How to support someone coming out in their 30s and beyond
Coming out can be hard at any age, but by the time you’re well into adulthood it may feel terrifying, and be completely life-changing. Many people who come out in their thirties and onwards may have wanted to for a long time but not felt safe enough to do so. As October 11 marks National Coming Out Day, it’s important to reflect on how, if and when people can share their authentic selves. “I wasn’t raised in a time when it felt safe to express attraction to women,” says author and creative mentor Fiona Fletcher Reid, who came out last year at the age of 35. “I wasn’t sure about my sexuality until I had psychosexual therapy and was able to explore all the layers of internalised homophobia and repression that I had accumulated over my 35 years,” she says. So, how you can support someone who is going through it? Don’t assume everyone is the same Not every person’s coming out looks the same, and some LGBTQ+ experiences are not universal. “Coming out is a personal experience and because it is often physically and emotionally dangerous to be openly queer, lots of people never feel able to be open,” says Fletcher Reid, now 36. “Some people might feel free to come out once they have ended a particular relationship, or after meeting people who they feel safe around. “For others, like me, it’s that we don’t consciously acknowledge our sexuality until we are a lot older and have the confidence to work through the emotional implications and real-life consequences that come with that,” The writer, from Glasgow, was going through a divorce at the time with a man she’d been with since the age of 17. “During therapy, I talked a lot about the pain I was experiencing during intercourse as well as my general anxiety around sex. It wasn’t until I’d built up a trusting relationship with my therapist that I felt able to discuss the fact that I thought I might be gay and I did not expect that to come up, so I was just as surprised as everyone else when I came out.” Don’t question their authenticity Validate what the person who has come out is saying. “Don’t say, ‘Are you sure?’ because you can rest assured that the person coming out to you has thought long and hard about this,” says Fletcher Reid. “Casting self-doubt on someone when they have opened up a vulnerable part of themselves to you is hurtful.” Don’t question them about their sex life It’s no one else’s business. “Please don’t ask about whether they have been intimate with anyone, or any other sort of suggestion that they need to ‘prove’ their sexuality to you,” she stresses. Consider what they feel and accept that it is a big deal They are probably feeling “a mix of emotions, including excited, happy, empowered and scared for their safety”, says Fletcher Reid. “Sadly coming out can still cause huge ruptures in relationships so be aware that this is a huge moment for them and comes with real consequences. “Dismissing their experience as ‘not a big deal’ because you think it’s ‘normal to be gay’ now is a dangerous and false narrative.” It may sound simple, but just listening and supporting them is vital. “Be there to listen and try to celebrate all the new things that they are exploring as they come out, whether that’s dating, meeting new people or finding ways to experiment with their identity through fashion,” says Fletcher Reid. “Repeat often that you love and care for them and that you accept this evolution of them, that you are happy to see them happy.” Suggest they find community “Encourage them to talk to other people who have been through similar experiences if you can,” she says. “As much as friends and family want to understand what they are going through, it is far more validating to talk to someone else who has come out later in life and understands the emotional intricacies of the experience. “They can also hopefully show them that there are good times ahead.” Thank them for sharing with you “It is a privilege that someone trusts you with coming out, especially later in life. Tell them that you are honoured to have been trusted with this information, and reassure them that you will keep it private until they are ready to tell other people,” Fletcher Reid suggests. “The best reactions that I had from people were seeing their joy that I had discovered this important part of myself, and that had a huge impact on my ability to feel hopeful amidst the pain caused by my divorce. “Allowing them to feel conflicted and guilty and offering reassurance that they have the right to be themselves will make them feel so much happier.” Read More Israel-Hamas conflict: How to talk to teenagers about distressing news stories Autumn décor ideas for a seasonal refresh Why you shouldn’t tidy your garden too much in autumn World Mental Health Day: 5 ways to beat anxiety and change your life Alternative veg to grow for next season How to spot if your child is struggling with their mental health – and what to do next
2023-10-11 14:25
What happened to MrBeast's ex-editor Matt Turner? Here's what he is up to
What happened to MrBeast's ex-editor Matt Turner? Here's what he is up to
Matt Turner started a custom rug shop and took part in a reality show after his stint with MrBeast
2023-06-04 16:48